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It’s been going a lot better, when I go back and compare to the time that Gabri?l still wore cute little baby clothes. But that doesn’t mean everything is easy now. At times I forget absolutely everything I have learned and we are back to zero. I wanted to know how it is now, if I compare yesterday to today. So I decided to go about it in a real professional manner.<\/p>\n

I’m scholarly like that. I know, I just used the word scholar and that makes me sophisticated and the fact that I just used the word sophisticated makes me a lady and the fact that I am a lady will make my husband howl with laughter. And my mom. And my dad. And I’m going to stop that list here or this post would get too long.<\/p>\n

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Here we go with the scholarly study. For this study I analysed the results that the activity I chose had on my mood and my behavior.<\/p>\n

Occasion number 1: ?<\/strong>I am sitting on the floor in the play-corner and Caleb is playing with the kitchen, being helpful and making fake food from the toy section in Ikea while pulling my hair.<\/div>\n
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My brain is foggy because I haven’t slept all that great in a big long while since… I am a mom. I am tired and I don’t want to think. Therefore, I want to put on Gilmore Girls or Pride and Prejudice or What a Girl Wants.<\/p>\n

But because I am doing this scholarly study… instead, I listen to The Chronicles of Narnia. It’s not quite as boring as the bible, my reasoning tells me at that moment, but not as empty as my other options.<\/p>\n

Occasion number 2: <\/strong>I do the laundry and watch Gilmore Girls. Caleb tries to eat the computer and makes Ikea food again.<\/p>\n

I am annoyed that Caleb talks because I NEED TO KNOW WHAT LORELAI SAID!<\/p>\n

Occasion number 3<\/strong>: I listen to the ESV bible reading while making breakfast. Nobody is up yet. I get through the first chapters?when little people come down, making unearthly noises with their Duplo spaceships. I shut it off. (The ESV reading, not the spaceships. One cannot, so it would seem, shut down spaceships.)<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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Occasion number 4:?<\/strong><\/div>\n
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I take a bath and do not watch Gilmore Girls or Lark Rise to Candleford, but listen to Nancy Leigh Demoss, and Amanda Cook.<\/p>\n

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Results:<\/strong><\/p>\n

My finding are that although I don’t turn into an evil witch when I watch movies, it doesn’t help me. It’s empty filling of my day. Depending on the movie, it is harmless but not helpful. ?Also, when it comes to watching a single episode… well, when does it end with just one episode?<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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To make all of the menial tasks a little less boring it is tempting to put on background noise, movies, to fill time and quiet. Even when I am not listening or watching closely, it is still a lot of emptiness that is filling my brain.<\/p>\n

When I listen to inspirational music, bible readings, podcasts, audio-books…I learn new things, hear old things I needed to be reminded of, am inspired to look for God.<\/p>\n

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And yet I do not think it is wrong to watch a movie sometimes. Sometimes it’s just fun, when you can watch a movie with your husband, or girlfriends, and it’s time spent together. One does not always need to talk about spiritual things, and say important and smart things.<\/p>\n

Like that time I watched Cinderella with my husband, and a week later with my mom and sisters, and a week after that with my friend.?
I might have watched it a few times by myself. With Caleb. Because watching Cinderella with your 6 month old is really bonding, I tell you. He was all ‘I wanna eat the computer’ and I was all ‘get away from the computer’ and we had this lovely?loving interaction in which I squished him. Because he was eating the computer in such a bewitchingly cute way.<\/p>\n

But to get back to my enlightening point. I concluded that not one single activity turns me into an instant angel.<\/div>\n

I know. So weird.<\/p>\n

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It’s been going a lot better, when I go back and compare to the time that Gabri?l still wore cute little baby clothes. But that doesn’t mean everything is easy now. At times I forget absolutely everything I have learned and we are back to zero. I wanted to know how it is now, if I compare yesterday to today. So I decided to go about it in a real professional manner.<\/p>\n

I’m scholarly like that. I know, I just used the word scholar and that makes me sophisticated and the fact that I just used the word sophisticated makes me a lady and the fact that I am a lady will make my husband howl with laughter. And my mom. And my dad. And I’m going to stop that list here or this post would get too long.<\/p>\n

Here we go with the scholarly study. For this study I analysed the results that the activity I chose had on my mood and my behavior.<\/p>\n

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