{"id":4684,"date":"2018-06-24T21:34:39","date_gmt":"2018-06-24T20:34:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/omily.me\/?p=4684"},"modified":"2018-06-25T17:32:56","modified_gmt":"2018-06-25T16:32:56","slug":"bloed-dat-mag-en-bloed-dat-niet-mag","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/omily.me\/en\/bloed-dat-mag-en-bloed-dat-niet-mag\/","title":{"rendered":"Acceptable and unacceptable blood"},"content":{"rendered":"

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\"[:nl]Bloed<\/a>
\n“Do it yourself”, I say.<\/div>\n
\n

“Just go play.”<\/p>\n

I wish he were big and independent already.<\/p>\n

“Quit whining.”
\n“Don’t be such a wimp.”
\n“Blood isn’t that bad. That will heal nicely.”<\/p>\n

I think my empathy and worrying mother’s heart are hard to find.<\/p>\n

But there they are:<\/p>\n

Someone hurts his heart.
\nDeep down I feel a raging hurricane coming up, aimed at the cause of his sadness.<\/p>\n

Blood that seeps out of your skin? You’ll be fine.<\/em><\/p>\n

Blood seeping out of your heart? That’s serious business we’re talking about.<\/em><\/p>\n

I want to hold him close.
\nAs if I can stop all the pain this world can give from touching him.
\nAs if I can protect him this way.<\/p>\n

Still, I force myself to loosen my arms, pushing him out into the wide world every time again.<\/p>\n

I feel my eyebrows wrinkle up with worry, feeling his pain deep within me.<\/p>\n

All the pain I have ever felt comes floating up like black oil in clear water. Am I worrying about his pain or mine now?<\/p>\n

My eyes follow him as he goes on, each step taking him a little farther into a part of the world. Without me.<\/p>\n

Because I do know that a little blood in your heart won’t kill you.<\/p>\n

And still.<\/p>\n

Come here, let me wrap your arms around you. And I’ll never let you go.<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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“Do it yourself”, I say. <\/p>\n

“Just go play.”<\/p>\n

I wish he were big and independent already.<\/p>\n

“Quit whining.” “Don’t be such a wimp.” “Blood isn’t that bad. That will heal nicely.”<\/p>\n

I think my empathy and worrying mother’s heart are hard to find.<\/p>\n

But there they are:<\/p>\n

Someone hurts his heart. Deep down I feel a raging hurricane coming up, aimed at the cause of his sadness.<\/p>\n

Blood that seeps out of your skin? You’ll be fine.<\/p>\n

Blood seeping out of your heart? That’s serious business we’re talking about.<\/p>\n

I want to hold him close. As if I can stop all the pain this world can give from touching him. As if I can protect him this way.<\/p>\n

Still, I force myself to loosen my arms, pushing him out into the wide world every time again.<\/p>\n

I feel my eyebrows wrinkle up with worry, feeling his pain deep within me.<\/p>\n

All the pain I have ever felt comes floating up like black oil in clear water. Am I worrying about his pain or mine now?<\/p>\n

My eyes follow him as he goes on, each step taking him a little farther into a part of the world. Without me.<\/p>\n

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